Feast of the Holy Family
Sacred Heart Church, Rushbrooke
31st December 2023
“The school of Nazareth”
My friends,
Time doesn’t stand still – nothing remains the same. Nostalgia allows us to cherish special moments of memory that have remained enriching for us.
A New Year approaches and politically it will involve us in referenda – two referendums which impact on how we view our relationships and responsibilities in family –
These impending realities come to mind on this Feast of the Holy Family of Nazareth. You may well ask what has the family of Nazareth 2000 years ago to say to families in the 21st century? You’d be surprised when you think on it a little. St. Pope Paul VI – the 1st Pope to travel widely visited Nazareth in the course of which he gave an address which opened with these observations.
“The home of Nazareth is the school where we begin to understand the life of Jesus – the school of the Gospel”
A little later on he adds
“Here in this school, one learns why it is
necessary to have a spiritual rule of life, if our
wishes to follow the teaching of the Gospel and
become a disciple of Christ”
Then he suggests three elements that can speak to all families
Ideally, our families are truly precious because it is where we are accepted and cherished unconditionally. For children it’s meant to guarantee security. For the elderly, its where they can sense they are loved and cherished in their fragility and sickness. These are high ideals that are difficult to adhere to. And women especially are being pressured by society’s demands to be a home maker, a professional and carer. There are limits to what is possible for individual women. So it is important for families to talk about these demands and work on them as a family. In family all are meant to be carers of one another.
In that sense the big question of our time is the issue of work/life balance. The failure to find that balance results in several negative outcomes mental health issues, burnout, anxiety, broken friendships, plain discontent and bitterness.
The school of Nazareth remind us that honesty, sensitivity, compassion and forgiveness are the fruit of a sincere inner spiritual core. The inner dimension itself needs nurturing by daily prayer of thanksgiving, petition and forgiveness.